Precious sinkala
2 min readSep 8, 2021

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THE BASICS OF BECOMING FAMILIAR WITH YOUR PARTNER

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It takes time and it takes effort, but, most importantly,it takes a great deal of maturity and understanding. If we accept these differences in our partners, we will have more meaningful relationships. With this advise, we are not trying to tell you to change what nature has made you as that is not going to happen,but it is necessary to realize that your partner is a different person. It is not necessary that they should like the same things that you do and say the same things that you speak. At the same time, most of the things that we label as selfish and inconsiderate in our partners, are actually quite different from what they appear. These things are nothing but the fundamental traits of those people. They are fashioned to behave in that particular manner. If a man forgets his wife’s birthday, it is not because he does not care for her,it is because nature has designed him to focus on one job at a time. Maybe he was just too busy with something else, his mind was biologically diverted to that task completely, and he slipped up.Or, when a woman spends too much time looking after herself, the man should not think that she is being vain.Nature has designed women in such a way that they like to take care of their appearance.these are just some of the basics look out for more in my next writing.

Precious sinkala
Author , marriage/ relationship counselor entrepreneur minded & writer

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Precious sinkala

AN AUTHOR & MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP COUNSELOR A RESEARCHER ENTREPRENEUR MINDED AND WRITER